Want to marry pakistani girl but she is under 16

#1 Jul 11th, 2013, 23:33
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My name is puneet want to marry Pakistani girl she is 15 and i am 19 , i want to know how can i marry her easily, how can i get visa either it is tourist or x visa ,,, should i go to Pakistan ,she is from Karachi or should i call her here in New Delhi as i live in Delhi,,, which is easy for us , how can i get visa for Pakistan, will it be trouble for me as her parents are not ready and also playing game with us ,, please advise me she also loves me a lot ,
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It is illegal for a guy under 21 and a girl under 18 to get married.
Seriously, focus on your studies, get a career/job, then think of the same girl. Advice applies to her as well in Pakistan.

Just curious, how (or whether) did you meet her?
#3 Jul 12th, 2013, 00:24
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she's still a child!!
let her grow up in peace.
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My name is puneet want to marry Pakistani girl she is 15 and i am 19
Narendra has told you the Indian law, which, as you have grown up with it you probably knew anyway. No idea what the ages for marriage/consent are in Pakistan.

Looks like you have a few years to wait. Might as well spend it usefully. Follow Narendra's advice
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Seriously, focus on your studies, get a career/job, then think of the same girl. Advice applies to her as well in Pakistan.
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Originally Posted by Puneet k View Post My name is puneet want to marry Pakistani girl she is 15 and i am 19
  • Have you traveled alone within India ?
  • Do you earn a living ?
  • Have you finished College ?
  • Can you tie your shoe laces ?

Why is it important ?

If you have never traveled alone how can you go to Pakistan ?If you do not earn a living, you cannot invite your friends from Kolkata, let alone from Karachi. If you have not finished college, you will need lots of paperwork to prove you are not human-traffic material, and exempt from ECR. If you can't tie your shoelaces, you will not be able to run fast enough if her brother comes with a gun.

You are welcome to hang around India Mike till you finish and accomplish all four points, and then, maybe you would have gained enough wisdom and read enough of the postings about Indian<-->pakistani marriages that someone like Nick-San or Major will take you under their wings and lead you to the right path.

In the meanwhile, read about Yoga Classes and Alu Chaat and Sonepapdi in India Mike !
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Originally Posted by Nick-H View Post No idea what the ages for marriage/consent are in Pakistan.
16 for women. But, in the recently leaked confidential Abbottabad Commission report there was an oblique mention of an age 14 ? OTH, I was surprised one country in Asia, the age was 13....Guess which !
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Originally Posted by nycank View Post 16 for women. But, in the recently leaked confidential Abbottabad Commission report there was an oblique mention of an age 14 ? OTH, I was surprised one country in Asia, the age was 13....Guess which !
Which?

According to wiki Brunei and Yemen don't specify any minimum age for marriage but I couldn't find the magic number 13 anywhere.

And BTW, the original Sarda Act was still in force till quite recently.
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Gee and to think my cousin's son got 14 years for this Huntsville..
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Hint: How many (in %) are without parental consent ?
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Sir I have asked for help not to quit, i am already in tension ,if anybody can advice how can i get her then only reply,,,,,,,if i am 23 and she is 16 then what should i do ,she does not look like a child , everything is fare in love and war ..please tell me the procedure , money, study is my problem i will handle it, as a Indian tell me what should i do to get her in my life ........thankyou
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Whosoever has got their pakistani girlfriend in their life please tell me the right procedure please ... dont tell to quit.......
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So, which one is it?
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Nobody is asking you to Quit. All we are saying is that you postpone this Marriage thing for a few years until you can provide for yourself and her, have a little more maturity than what you currently seem to have to be able to look at things holistically and to be able to deal with what you are likely to face from all ends in this kind of relationship. It has little to do with her being a Pakistani. It has everything to do with you both being too young.

So are you still 19 and her 16, or are you 23 and her 16?
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everything is fare in love and war .
  • Its not love, just some sort of fixation caused by some deep inadequacy, lack of purpose and illusions !
  • Its not fare , its fair ! Its not fair if your parents are paying your fare!
  • Its not war, nobody is fighting , except perhaps you against yourself!

If you truly love the girl(child), then you'll do what is best for her, and not what you think will make you happy ! Unfortunately right now the best thing for her, is that you stay as far away as possible from her, for at-least 5 years!
If after 5 years the both of feel the same way about each other , then pursue the relationship!
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Originally Posted by edwardseco View Post Gee and to think my cousin's son got 14 years for this Huntsville..
That's why they're called "jailbait"

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