Indian citizen wanted to marry Iranian girl

#1 Jan 24th, 2016, 11:15
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hi, im kasinath ...basically im a hindu..i loved a iranian girl but she is already married she is trying for divorce now because her husband is a psycho.. .. if she gets divorce we wanted to marry each other.. but her parents don't let us to marry and even from my side too.. we wanted to marry secretly and when we feel independent we will try to convince our families.. my girl friend cant live with out her family... she is telling that according to iranian rule.. a boy has to be a muslim to marry her.. if she marry me ( hindu boy) she cant go back to iran to meet their family even once.. so she is advising me its better u convert into a muslim and marry me... i even agreed to it.. but my question is
1. I would like to know how i have to marry her ? first i need to convert into muslim ? and then marry her... i would like to know what is the procedure for marrying a foreign lady..?
2. when she will become a indian citizen ? with out extending visa.
3. how many days it gonna take to complete all the procedure?
4.if i convert to muslim . do i need to change the name in my passport? if it is .. what's the procedure?
please let me know all the procedure to marry her..
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Originally Posted by kasinath4b3 View Post hi, im kasinath ...
Well, non-religious inter faith marriages between locals and foreigners, is indeed a problematic issue in Iran.

But, if you are marrying in India, do so under Special Marriage Act, and none other!

Why, is outside the scope of this thread. Do search for Indian case law.

Of course, she can go back to Iran and meet her family. Maybe she is observant and religious and does not want to deviate.

Good luck !
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Will you be staying in India after you get married? This question cropped up since you mention that your girlfriend (who you loved) can't live without her family.
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yeah. we will stay at India after we get married.. after some years.. when her parents wanted to meet us ..we need to go back to iran right?
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Originally Posted by kasinath4b3 View Post yeah. we will stay at India after we get married.. after some years.. when her parents wanted to meet us ..we need to go back to iran right?
You do not have to do anything to get married under SMA. All she needs is a standard six month tourist visa. The notion of changing religion does not occur if you are not planning on settling in Iran.



On the Other Hand, converting has some benefits for a male, which I will not go into, which your spice might not like.
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Where do you plan to get married?
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Has no choice ! India or .....Caribbean Not Iran
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So if he has to marry in India, then there is no need for him to convert to Islam.
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after some years may be we plan to settle in Iran as my gf cant live with out her parents.. so she is telling me to convert to islam so that if we wanted to settle in iran later...v will not face any problem ..
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Originally Posted by nycank View Post You do not have to do anything to get married under SMA. All she needs is a standard six month tourist visa. The notion of changing religion does not occur if you are not planning on settling in Iran.



On the Other Hand, converting has some benefits for a male, which I will not go into, which your spice might not like.
i would like to know .. Is converting to islam a big problem? or easy ?
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Originally Posted by kasinath4b3 View Post after some years may be we plan to settle in Iran as my gf cant live with out her parents.. so she is telling me to convert to islam so that if we wanted to settle in iran later...v will not face any problem ..
I get a sense, maybe wrongly, that you have not been to Eyeran, even as a tourist.

In which country did you meet your spice wannabe ?

Do you have the language and/or technical skillset to survive and earn a few rial ?

Do you know the requirements of a settlement visa for spouses of Iranian citizens ?
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Originally Posted by nycank View Post I get a sense, maybe wrongly, that you have not been to Eyeran, even as a tourist.

In which country did you meet your spice wannabe ?

Do you have the language and/or technical skillset to survive and earn a few rial ?

Do you know the requirements of a settlement visa for spouses of Iranian citizens ?
yeah i went to Iran once.. my girl is telling that there are so many foreigners working at the iran oil companies.. as her father is a engineer in petrol company.. she is telling that may be he would provide a good job for you so that we can settle in iran... *my self.. Infact i wanna be at India... If my gf could not stay at India if she wanna go back to iran .. we should not face problem in the visa process like that. as she told an iranian women has to marry with a muslim only .. for example if i marry her .. she will become hindu... iran govt. dont accept their citizens convert to other religion .. infact death is the punishment if any one wanna change into other religion ... so iam thinking its better i change my self into muslim.. so that in future if we wanna settle in iran too,, we will not face any problem..
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Originally Posted by kasinath4b3 View Post .. for example if i marry her .. she will become hindu... iran govt. dont accept their citizens convert to other religion .. infact death is the punishment if any one wanna change into other religion
Really !!! Many people marry and do not change either their last name, or their religion. Read about Jason Rezaian and his iranian wife Yeganeh Salehi.
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Originally Posted by kasinath4b3 View Post .. as her father is a engineer in petrol company.. she is telling that may be he would provide a good job for you so that we can settle in iran..
So, let me get this straight - she is married to someone else, her family doesn't approve of you, and you still expect her father to simply provide you with a good job?

Maybe at least wait until she gets a divorce first?

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. *my self.. Infact i wanna be at India... If my gf could not stay at India if she wanna go back to iran .. we should not face problem in the visa process like that.
You know, it would really help if you tried to write more clearly - please make an effort. I don't understand what you wrote up there. So you prefer living in India but she prefers living in Iran? What do you mean "like that"?

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as she told an iranian women has to marry with a muslim only .. for example if i marry her .. she will become hindu... iran govt. dont accept their citizens convert to other religion .. infact death is the punishment if any one wanna change into other religion ...
Yes, apostasy is serious business in Iran, so she should be very careful.

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so iam thinking its better i change my self into muslim.. so that in future if we wanna settle in iran too,, we will not face any problem..
I am puzzled with this very nonchalant attitude to religious conversion... It's usually taken much more seriously.
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Agree and wait at least until she is granted a divorce! If she is?

And for her sake and safety, her husband better not find out about your relationship. Unless he already knows?
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