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I almost never accept food or drinks from strangers while travelling. I pretend to have a bad stomach or feign some other illness and politely refuse.
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Loud-mouthed, Noisy Bird
Join Date: Oct 2004
Location: Chennai, India
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I'm too fussy an eater: more often than not, accepting food from a stranger will lead to my embarrassment at not being able to eat, or, at least, finish it. Given an organ relocation scheme, my stomach would still choose London!
However, on one of my first solo train trips, which I had not planned properly foodwise, and was not quick enough to understand the guy taking orders for food in the train --- I was very grateful to the two business men who each gave a little of their egg biryani . I should have gone hungry, otherwise.My wife's advice. No... My wife's instruction's to me (one Indian point of view) is never to accept food from strangers anywhere. I got told off when I admitted to accepting a samosa from a stranger at the Road Traffic Office! And my stomach proved her right, though it only took half a day to get over.
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Calcutta
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WHAT AN INDIAN THINKS - this is basic stuff. it's like abroad you tell your kids never to talk to a strangers, we have been told since i can remember not to accept food from strangers, especially on trains, and even more so in BIHAR!!!
that place is like almost completely lawless. please, have some sense, never ever do this. it's just plain stupid!!! |
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Join Date: Mar 2006
Location: Whitefield, Bangalore, India
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"have you noticed the 'whats yours is mine' (& vice versa) attitude of Indians?" this is not only true when traveling on trains but in any mass transit situation. I was traveling from Hyderabad to Bangalore sitting in the 'middle' seat on an Air Deccan flight and was surprised when an older woman picked the book that I had on my lap and started to read it...I was a little surprised as I had been told to expect this kind of behavior with magazines and newspapers but with a book? she put it back after 10min, apparently she didn't appreciate Brigit Jone's Diary
I generally always decline any type of food or chai offered to me, I have tried a few different excuses, one of them being that I am fasting - but found that doesn't always work as most indians that I have met consider tiffen, snacks, chai OK to have while fasting Now I always go with "I am really not feeling well, my stomach is very upset" and then I will make a feeling sick type face and rub my stomach....but sometimes that doesn't even work...then I just stand strong, express my apologies and say no thank you... |
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Join Date: Jun 2007
Location: Stoke-On-Trent
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Always go with your gut feeling and like others have said i always use the foreigner with the bad stomach routine and if they insist, i make gestures that i will puke on them
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Join Date: Aug 2005
Location: India
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this a really scary story - with a 'happy ending' since nothing untoward happened (apart from the after-effects of the drugging of course). hats off, rachael, you possess an amazing attitude! hope your future travels in india are free from such events.
on a lighter note, we were once travelling from bombay to bangalore air-con first class (i think it was first class, there were just me, my partner and my mother and one other man in the compartment/coupe). early on, the man helped himself to my partner's magazine (without asking) but this did not cause a problem - my partner said nothing. he decided to light up a cigarette (don't ask - there's no knowing what he will do next or where!) and the man (quite rightly, imho) pointed out it was a non-smoking compartment. so my partner put the offending cigarette out and a second later, snatched his magazine out of the bewildered man's hands, 'i'll have my magazine back in that case' or words to that efect! the man felt so uncomfortable as a result, he got the ticket collector to allocate him a seat in a separate compartment! ![]() |
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: ~ Dilli ~
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generally speaking, Yes, you should not accept anything edible from strangers, not only India, but anywhere..
But one should use his/her gut feeling, where ever the person can. Food is the way the love is expressed across the entire civilized world...and more so in India...here it is considered rude/bad manners if you eat without sharing with people around you.. But this doesn't mean that one should accept food from strangers, but just don't put a blanket ban and people like me, who are actually happy go lucky should take a few chances.. ![]() |
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Join Date: Aug 2007
Location: Calcutta
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yeah, the what's urs is mine attitude does exist, especially when it comes to reading material. but mostly people just ask. newspapers in trains can change hands some 20 times quite easily. as for the tea, or food, just say NO, but be nice
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Join Date: May 2007
Location: New Delhi, India
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These sort of incidents happen all around.
The drug used is Ketamine (This is a horse tranquilizer) A very common drug used in India and Europe to spike drinks. Most common affects are rape or robbery. In India, it is rude to refuse food when given from a "friend" (whom you have just met a few hours ago.. Normally, I refuse politely and if they insist, I just tell them that I am paranoid about the incidents I have heard about such incidents happening in India. They somehow understand.. Some of them offer sealed food!!! I then talk about how good quality booze is bottled at home.... anyone who is sitting there would agree with me.. The only option I leave for them to hold me down and then tie me up.. |
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Australia
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"be alert but not alarmed" as the orwellian fear campaign by the former Pm of Australia put it.
never accept victuals from people while in transit in India . "ji nehin shukriar pet kharab hai..." |
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Location: Seattle, WA USA
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Join Date: Jan 2008
Location: Australia
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atropine is the major agent in Datura and causes excitability ,restlessness ,confusion,dry mouth , inability to focus the eyes and if in large enough doses true hallucinations,not illusions based on altered perceptions.lassitude sets in later.
I would love to visit Sarasam and see Sher Shah's tomb but only with a car . a driver and guard using Benares as a base. I usually fly over Bihar, which is pity because as a history buff it has much to see. |
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Join Date: Feb 2008
Location: Seattle
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I have traveled extensively in Bihar. I worked in Jamshedpur for about a year. I used to take the Bokaro steel city express from Salem, Tamil Nadu to Bihar. Probably the worst train ride from comfort POV. It takes 2 full days (50 hrs) and the damned thing does not have a pantry coach.
Still, I usually have a good time...I pack books to read and talk to people...sometimes you meet the most interesting people on the train. I must have done this traveling half a dozen times and a lot of bus travel inside Bihar too...never had any problems. But then, I don't carry money with me...no jewelry and I could fit in with any crowd without sticking out. I picked up a little Bhojpuri too. The only 'incident' I had was a customs informer type suspecting me as a Bangladeshi (we were coming back from Nepal...me and me friends were talking in Tamil) and took us to the customs office. Well, we knew the officer there..he was a relative of a friend of ours..so the informer guy ended up getting an earful from him. Then there is this demanding money during Puja times. These local rowdies will put up a checkpost and collect "donation" money from people in the buses passing by. The trick is to keep loose change in shirt pocket..so you don't have to take out your wallet and not getting intimidated by the loud demanding voice. I quickly learned that I can shout louder than him and he usually slips away...
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I will not drink that s$$t!!!!!!!!! |
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Join Date: Mar 2008
Location: Australia
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Rachael,
Good advice to people. And, I don't think you would scare people off but rather raise their awareness. Quote:
I use a standby method - if I don't know the person (personally) I would rather cause unintentional (and minor) offence at refusing some offer of "hospitality" rather than become another statistic. Cheers Zoltan
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