What is the best way to find your future partner ?

TerryM

What is the best way to find your further partner ?

A) college / university / work
B) arranged marriage / friends / parents / mandir
C) clubs / party / uitgaan
D) Internet / Chat
E) sports / hobbies

ddevadatta

Met mine when I was going to college. Been married 16 years now...

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mahmud

Sorry, I already done this job!!

Ikuru

Most people will probably Only ever end up in bed with someone if they tend to be properly drunk, people who end up in bed together once might feel the urge and need to do so again eventually... If this sort of behavior turns into a habbit it can be hard to break.
If you dont brake it (and why should you? We all feel miserable beeing allone!) you might end up going for walks and watching TV together. Eventually you probably end up with children (it just happens).
By now you Really need eachother and its probably time to get married (you get a circle shaped metal to put on your fingers) This pact shows others that you now officially love eachother/bellong to eachother. And well, you live happely ever after.

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snowcrab

Most people will only end up in bed if they are drunk? Gosh I thought there was at least one other reason. I don't think nature has ever depended on alchol in any other species.

Indojingai

aarrgh... cut the crap people... give the answer!!

like TerryM i'm looking for the answers...

only differnece is i wanna know, how the hell do I meet miss right.. Indian or not....

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Ikuru

Indeed The reason for "going out"/"having fun" (Getting Drunk) is sex.

No, indeed the rest of nature besides (human nature) works on instinct and sexdrive allone.
But since man is working Against his nature, we feel the need to knock ourselves of the twig once in a while in order for mother nature to take place...

Indojingai

But sex after drinks doesnt happen in India...

What is this place.. USAMike???

TerryM

I did meet my wife 6 years ago online, in soc.penpals and 1 days I planned a holiday to india after daily e-mail writting to eachother, so after 3 years I asked her to marry me, but her mom was against it first, so I needed to show my good will so I was flying up and down toIndia every year sometimes 2 times a year and she come here two times. so finally I asked her again and her mom and mom was happy with it and we got married in India (indian style) which was very good. and we are still together.

Terry

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Ikuru

That might be true.
But they have arranged marriage and I dont.

(This Place is about India. Mike is from the U.S of A, I´m from the U.S of S)
I dont think this thread is intended to be India specific.

Indojingai

You sir, are a devil's advocate...

Its a sea of difference in being able to get trashed and take some random lady to bed or wait for years and years until the old folks find someone for the bachelor(ette).


OT: This and your avatar reminds me of an episode of Seinfeld, where he and elaine manage.. this & that.
Do you remember ... ?

readmymind

can there be 1 BEST way to meet your partner ?

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readmymind

Ikuru, i hope alcohol is not the only way for most people to have sex.


i do understand that a lot of people go out and drink while looking for a sex partner, but if one has to drink everytime then that's a sad situation. sober sex can be so very satisfying.

no offence intended. this is just my opinion from my experience.

passingby

oh, but what you guys don't know is that this is the way Swedes mate.
The whole Swedish dating thing is very complicated. Swedes need to be drunk to lossen up, otherwise they are very rigid.
Most of the time they get really drunk from 7-9 pm, then they go out to Bars, get even drunker, by 12 am meet a girl/boy, by 2 am end up in bed together and if one of them doesn't leave by then, by 8 am wake up together and maybe exchage phone numbers.

I remember when I lived in Sweden asking a work coleague, how Seedes make girfriends/bofriends, since I found that they are very rigid and only have fun when they drink.
His answer was:
"First, you start by waking up next to her...'

So, there you have it, the Swedish mating game...

passingby

also,
it doesn't really matter how you meet, what matter is that you click and it works out in the end.
What I find to be the most important thing in a relationship is to get along, have common interests and feel attraction towards your partner.