In search of new life

hello friends myself rahul from andhrapradesh,iam here to share with you that its getting hell with my life iam living here so iam in search of a new life to lead in a new way.since some months i use to feeling as the life iam living here is of waste for money and unnecessary wants,its a voice comming from my heart that this is not i born for i born to lead a life of means.so i was with a mind to sift to gharwal as i had been few time there.i like the devbhomi and want to spend my life there with some small job or something else to feed ourself and my family.we are a family of four mom,dad me and my wife ever one of us are with the same idea of sifting to devbhomi.it would be great help if members help me out with your advices,suggestions.

let me clear with you that i want to live helping people in small village of devbhomi and as we are an educated family as my dad is an CA,myself ICWA nd my wife BCOM.we can utilise our education to help people.

i reaaly appricate your thoughts and your initiation for this good luck with that n yes for sure you have selected the best place to live a simple peacfull life...

thanks ameyamuck, what we get is gods given then why to live in hell for money and dam stupid wants of treasures.why not to live a peacful life of helping people of villages in gods place.for me this is a right way of leading life.

First thing first...in this virtual world, I do not believe in the authenticity of such posts...who knows there might be a person at the other end deriving sadistic (kind of) pleasure and laughing at the real concern and empathy shown in response to such posts....these are my apprehensions and I thought it better to share at the outset.

If I may ask, why have you decided to help the people of Garhwal...out of compassion or because you are frustrated with some thing in your life and take it as the easiest way out...i.e. to settle in a place where life seems to be easier?

hello photofreak, its wrong to think that life is easier in gharwal(specially for the one who had been in cities with every available facilities since born),its not of choosing a easy way of life friend its a way to choose a right way of life.every people in this world have their own way of taking life.your past and present make your mind to choose your future,so as mine ofcourse i have a reason for what iam choosing.let you know about me iam an icwai all indian ranker student,an business man having a perfect running business with my hardwork,my age is just 26 hope you know what people of my age thinks of life.then why iam on a very different angle of life.i wont bother if some one calls it a sadistic king of view.i wont care what world thinks of this what it care is what i think as this is my life. iam here in indiamike to share advice,support and opinion from like minded person.SORRY IF SOMETHING WRITTEN MAY HURT MEMBERS OF IM.

And if its the question why i choose gharwal,then its because i had my own time spent with people of gharwal,a purity of humanity, helpfulness,no selfish heart and much more to say about them.FOR ME A MAN WITH HEART IS MUCH BETTER THAN A MAN WITH MIND.

advices please

I dont know anything about living a simple life in Garhwal but I know depression.
Everyone gets disillusioned with circumstances, society, family, friends, work at some point in their lives. We live in a time where the future collides with our present and past at a pace which is way faster than what many of us can cope with. The virtual world has caused many different parallel ideologies, lifestyles clashing and confusing the heck out of us. with the ever growing distance between people , depression is here to stay.

shifting your entire family to a remote place because of what sounds like an early mid life crises seems drastic. India is a harsh and unforgiving country for the poor.

Dont be disheartened. seek out like minded people in your city. help the poor in your city. join a cause. get some physical exercise.

This bad time shall pass.

I agree with wandersome

Very truly said. The pace of life in hills is the most apposite one should have. We all are trapped in a cattle race to earn and build money which is snatching away our lives away. We all are blessed with only one life, this is the ultimate truth. Having said so, I am not against living in metros or urban lifestyle but I just want to express my opinion for a medium paced lifestyle. Permanently shifting to hills is not a bad choice, staying there for short times in regular intervals with the local people is also a better option. That way one can rejuvenate oneself and simultaneously live a cosmopolitan life which I think is a necessity for all so called educated masses.
So I will favor the option of living in hills any time but choice should be logical so that one should not repent in future.

Thanks... Hermit life is choice... don't study in convent schools :-)