Can I date an Indian girl?

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#1 Feb 24th, 2005, 05:20
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Is it possible to date local girls in Goa, and Bangalore? Many Indian girls I know that are traditional types don't even date. I want to know just how many girls IN India are open to dating. Or should I plan on being celibate?

Sorry to be blunt, but I put it politely in another thread and noone answered.
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Originally Posted by Peyompian Can I fuck an Indian girl?
Is there something in the air these days? If you asked her politely maybe.
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should I plan on being celibate?
Sounds like you've answered your own question, sunshine.
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Tell her that you are God's gift to women and it did work for an Indian I advised in New York. I'll bring my video..
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Did I start a nasty trend or what?
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LOL yes you're to blame Indiadancer
btw The poster or someone changed the title I think, lest any of you think I'm the foulmouthed one in quoting him.
How are your plans coming along ID? PM me if you will.
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Originally Posted by Peyompian Or should I plan on being celibate?
Well, there's always your hand, and (as one of my old law school classmates once said) then at least you know you'll be doing it with someone you love
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Originally Posted by dzibead Well, there's always your hand, and (as one of my old law school classmates once said) then at least you know you'll be doing it with someone you love
LOL I saw a (very interesting) TV show with a manic depressive patient the other day and he had written a (Dutch) book called "I love myself and it's mutual" (his other book is called "God is confused and thinks he's called Peter", the guy had had delusions of being Gandhi first, then God.)
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Is it possible to date local girls in Goa, and Bangalore? Many Indian girls I know that are traditional types don't even date. I want to know just how many girls IN India are open to dating. Or should I plan on being celibate?
1. anything is possible
2. Expect the Worst, Hope for the Best.
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Could someone answer the question, please? In short: "How common is the 'dating' paradigm in India, and does it extend to foreigners where it exists? I've never been. I don't know. Tell me."

I mean... can anyone actually expound on dating, as a foreign male, in India... or is Indian sexual reppression so intense that even foreigners can't talk about it? I mean seriously, its like we're all in middle school and we can't speak frankly.
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Originally Posted by Peyompian Can I date an Indian girl.
its highly unlikely that you could date women of any nationality if you're as obnoxious as you sound!
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Yeah. Desperation is kind of a turn-off. So is disrespect for other people's cultures. Take it down a notch.
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Originally Posted by Peyompian Sorry to be blunt, but I put it politely in another thread and noone answered.
Like I said, I put it politely in another thread, and noone responded. Here it is:

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So... I am a 25 year old American male, and I got my 10 year tourist Visa the other day, and in a couple of months I am moving to Goa/Bangalore (will see when I get there) to work on my own on a software project for six months or a year.

Honestly... I figure that I will probably be celibate during my time in India. Although this is not ideal... I figure I can meditate alot, or something. Most of my time will be spent in Goa, and I will be there in the off-season where there won't be many European/Israeli tourists, and as far as I know... dating a Goan girl is hard. I'm not looking for a wife. I'm not above the occasional one-night stand, but really I would be looking for "light" dating, that might turn into a relationship and might not. I'm sure I will get lonely for a little intimacy, whether that is in-between sheets, or over a cup of chai in a cozy cafe.

I hear that in Bangalore, there are alot of girls with attitudes that resemble their more conservative western counterparts... very similar in attitude to what Indiadancer has expressed in the other dating thread. But as for Goa... I have no idea what to expect. Anyone?

I lived in Russia, and although sex was easy to get owing to the "white god" factor... friendships and dating were hard to come by. Not many girls were interested in you as a person, and it was hard to tell who actually was. Is this as much an issue in India?
Look people, if you're not capable of discussing sexuality without being sarcastic, thats fine. Not everyone is open about their sexuality, and I understand. But keep your negativity to yourself
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Originally Posted by Indiadancer Yeah. Desperation is kind of a turn-off. So is disrespect for other people's cultures. Take it down a notch.
Hey sweet-pea, you got about three pages of horny-guy replies to your thread asking for the exact same information. Noone replied to my polite thread, because I have a penis and not a vagina. So I'm using shock to lure people in, to get information.

Deal.
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Look "honey bun" I didn't get horny-guy replies on that forum. Don't bring genitalia into this. You're just bitter because you are coming off like a jerk. Not my problem.
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